Saturday, October 31, 2009

Security Is Found Within - So Start Looking

Security is a major issue a lot of people face. I am seen it time and time again in the work that I do, and in many forms, from financial security to relationship security and so on. But what people are forgetting is that security comes from within. It is inside of you all along and no one and no thing can provide this for you.

Let me give you an example, many years ago I came across a woman who still clung to her childhood stuffed animal toy, and she was 35 years old at that time. She said she had this around her most of time that she could, at least in her home. She told me she didn�t take this to work with her because she didn�t want her colleagues to make fun of her. Her husband and children knew about this, as she would have t with her when she got up, and carried it around her house all the time from room to room. She took this stuffed animal to bed with her and pretty much had it with her all the time. She grew up in a very negative household, with a lot of mental and emotional abuse. She knew it was from this lack of love and sense of self and security that she had clung onto this raggedly old toy for so long, but she couldn�t part with it.

But why I asked? She said she was scared. I asked her what she was scared of and she said of being alone and no one loving her. I then asked her could this stuffed animal love her and make her feel not alone. She thought about this for a moment and said that is silly it is a stuffed animal, it has no conscious side, it has no heart, and it is merely some material that has been patched over so many times in the years that it didn�t even look like the original animal. She then realized that it was herself holding her back, not the stuffed animal.

She had been clinging to something for 35 years all because of a lack of security inside. This is something that a lot of people go through, not to this extent always, but there is still that lack. So take some time today and look inside yourself. Are you holding yourself back? What do you really want to do? Am you scared and in the end holding yourself back?

Break through that barrier. What you have been doing isn�t working until now, so lets change it! If you haven�t got the security inside then you haven�t go it at all.

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Many Blessings and Love and Light
Nicole Lanning

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